Ram Ram Bhai Sareya ne !!!!I am Tandava and it is day 7 of the 90-day writing challenge. I'm feeling proud of myself for making it to this point, and you know what? You should feel proud too for the little victories in your life that you often overlook and don't take time to appreciate. ( I’m Proud of You <3 ). Okay , How do you react when something goes wrong or fails due to circumstances beyond your control? Mostly we start to think who’s fault is it? who is to blame for this? or do we simply blame the situation? Why haven't you started reading yet? I don't find enough time during the day (watching reels for 3 hours a day is a hectic job harsh you won't understand ), Why haven’t you updated your fueler profile with the latest Pow? pin drop silence ( Flying 🥿 received from Riten bhaiya )
Lemme ask you a question here, can you guess what’s similar in all 3 situations?
In all three situations, we are giving up control. We are talking about whose fault is it, You might think, what’s wrong with this harsh? Well, the problem with blaming is (a) that it takes away our power to change the situation. (b) Choices are already made, (c) it's the past. This type of thinking can lead to feelings of helplessness and a lack of motivation to take action.
On the other hand, if we take responsibility for things (a) gives you power to do something about the situation, (b) Choices are yet to be made, (c) it talks in present tense.
It allows us to focus on what we can do to improve the situation and find solutions rather than dwelling on the past or assigning blame. When we take ownership of our actions, we are more likely to learn from our mistakes and grow as individuals. We become more proactive and less reactive, which leads to greater happiness in all the realms of our lives.
So next time, let's try focus on what we can do about the situation, instead of cribbing over external circumstances/people.
( I think this one could have been framed better , please lmk your feedback?) Untill then, Smile <3
Greatness is coming ⚡ Tandavaa